Love Me Harder is a night-time space for freedom, touch, desire and intense experience. A sex-positive techno party born from the need to create a place where you don't have to hide behind social conventions, and where you can be open about your sexuality, curiosity and your own body. For one night, we change the rules of the everyday world. You dance, observe, flirt, meet new people, experiment, or simply let the music carry you somewhere you don't get to go during the day. Some come for sex, others for the music, others for the atmosphere, the performances or simple curiosity. There is a place for all of it.
Love Me Harder is open to people who want to experience their sexuality more freely and safely. You can come with a partner, with friends or on your own and meet someone during the night with whom a brief intimate connection develops — or meet no one at all. You can be active, or you can be an observer. You can explore BDSM, power play, whipping, electrical stimulation or other forms of physical play, if that is something you genuinely want. You can also spend the entire night simply dancing. No one expects you to cross a boundary you don't want to cross. Quite the opposite. Consent, respect and the ability to change your mind at any moment are at the heart of the entire night.
An atmosphere, bodies in motion, techno, sweat, lights and touch create an environment where sexuality becomes a natural part of public space. Not as an attraction, but as something human. Something we all know, but rarely talk about openly. Love Me Harder is an event where, for a while, you can put aside the rules that tell you what is normal, acceptable or appropriate. You don't have to fit your body, your desire or the way you experience things into boxes created for us by society.
Art is just as important a part of the night. We see the human body as a medium of expression, just like a canvas, sculpture or stage. That is why Love Me Harder includes installations, scenography, photography, visual interventions and, above all, live performances that push the boundaries between eroticism, physicality and contemporary art. Some are subtle and provocative, others physically demanding, brutal or extreme. Body suspension, pain, blood, power, trust and the body itself — things you would rarely have the chance to see up close and live. We don't want to hide them or simplify them. We want to show them in their full intensity and leave it to each person to decide what they evoke.
These performances are not instructions or inspiration for what to do at home. What you see on stage takes place between experienced professionals in a carefully prepared environment where risks are anticipated and immediate intervention is possible. The audience is not part of the dangerous act. What happens in front of you is live art and an intense experience — not a tutorial.
And then there is the music. Electronic beats that hold the entire night together while everything else unfolds around them. Three stages, different energies, dark corners and open spaces where you can disappear into the crowd or become part of it. Love Me Harder exists somewhere between a club, an underground scene, an art space and an erotic gathering. None of these things need to be separated. Music can be erotic. The body can be art. Sex can be part of social space. And a performance can be something that reaches much deeper than an ordinary show.
LOVE ME HARDER: EPIC will expand this world across two clubs for the first time — FLÉDA × FRAKTAL. Two spaces connected into one night, three stages, darkrooms, interactive zones, more room for meeting people, more room for play and more room for performances. Around 300–400 people who will find themselves in the same world for a few hours, yet each will take something different away from it.
Maybe you come for the techno. Maybe for the sex. Maybe you want to meet someone new. Maybe you're interested in BDSM, performance or art that goes further than what you normally see in a gallery. Or maybe you simply want to find out what it feels like to be somewhere where nudity, desire and intimacy are part of the environment — and you don't have to do anything.
You don't have to prove anything. You don't have to cross any boundary. But you might discover that some boundaries were always only in your head.
Love Me Harder is a place where music, sex and art meet. A place where you can be an observer or a participant, a stranger or part of the crowd, gentle or wild, bold or cautious. The only things you need to bring with you are respect for others and respect for your own body.
Love Me Harder: EPIC. Two clubs. One organism. One night in which you can be whoever you want to be.